A while back the note from the Universe (www.TUT.com) was about the law of reverse desires… "the sooner you can be happy without "it," the sooner you will be happy with "it." " I've applied this to a number of things in my life including money... when I could imagine a life of happiness without a lot of money I was no longer controlled by money. At that point I was able to develop a healthy attitude towards money and happiness living a life of abundance.